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Frequently Asked Questions

BBW swingers party London

What are the rules?

No Means No!

Whether that's play, or conversation, if you are being a pest you will be asked to leave. 

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NO I.D, NO ENTRY

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NO DRUGS IN OR AROUND THE VENUE

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NO CHEWING GUM IN THE VENUE

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NO GLASS OR FOOD UPSTAIRS

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NO PARKING IN NEIGHBOURS DRIVEWAYS.

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PLEASE SAY YOUR GOODBYES IN THE VENUE.​

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RESPECT YOUR FELLOW GUESTS, THE VENUE AND THE NEIGHBOURS.

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Can I ask about Pluscious at Club Indulge?

NO! NEVER! ABSOLUTELY NOT!

PLUSCIOUS AND AFTER DARK ARE SPIN OFF EVENTS FROM CLUB INDULGE, BUT ARE NOT TO BE DISCUSSED AT CLUB INDULGE OR USING INDULGE SOCIAL MEDIA CHANNELS.

INDULGE CUSTOMERS ARE NOT THERE FOR ADULT PARTIES, AND ANYONE ASKING ABOUT PLUSCIOUS OR AFTER DARK AT CLUB INDULGE WILL BE BANNED FROM ALL EVENTS. 

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Club Indulge remains our priority, and no one there wants to hear about Pluscious or After Dark. Anyone asking about it will not be welcome at any of our events, and will risk shutting down these events completely.

 

How do I know who is coming?

You don't, but then..neither do we. We have no crystal ball, but we have been running Indulge events for over a decade so we're expecting lots of people of all shapes, sizes and ages! 

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We also run 'Indulge: After dark', a 'members only' event which is a bit more circumspect. However, we wanted one that was open to every body, with the same sense of fun and inclusion that we bring to our more not-so-nekkid club nights!

If you're new to 'the scene', or you want a more gentle approach, or you just prefer to know the guest list has been hand picked for suitable guests, then you may want to consider coming to AFTER DARK

What is the venue like?

House of Poitier is a well-known large Georgian house in Sutton, South London. If we have enough people interested in our events we may go to other areas! Downstairs is a bar and kitchen area where you can keep your drinks and snacks in the fridge. There is also a large lounge where you can sit and chill with other guests.
There is a kink room, and a two way mirror room, and downstairs toilet on the ground floor as well as a covered smoking area.
Upstairs is two group play rooms, and two private play rooms as well as another toilet and a shower.

 

Can I come alone?

Of course! We have plenty of icebreakers and lots of chill-out spaces where you can chat to other party guests. 

What, exactly, happens?

When you arrive, we'll take a pic of your I.D for everyone's safety. You can place items like your keys, phone and wallet in a locker. Any other bags you can leave in the lounge where a Pluscious team member will be at all times. 
If you want, we can introduce you to some of our regulars from other events, and you can stay chatting all night. No pressure.
You can also take part in our fun icebreakers, and hopefully feel confident enough to invite someone into a play room..

What if someone is being creepy?

We have a zero tolerance policy on creeps or anyone being anything less than friendly and respectable, so please report any bad behaviour to your host. 

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You should never feel pressured. Anyone making you feel uncomfortable should be reported. 

Do I need to be a member?

No. We run another event for Members Only. If you're new and nervous, we recommend applying for 'Indulge:After Dark.' 
 

We wanted to accommodate people who did not want the hassle of membership applications, and a way for potential members to show us they can behave at an event!

You will, however, need to show your Photo I.D and proof of address at each event for everyone's safety.

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SEE HOW WE USE/STORE IT UNDER OUR PRIVACY POLICY

How many people will be there?

Again, hard to answer without a crystal ball so I can't tell you, but we will be keeping an equal amount of men to women. If we don't sell enough tickets in advance to make it a viable event, refunds will be given or postponed to another date. 

However, we've been organising parties for a while now, and by keeping to a few, well-attended events a year, we are certain you will be 100% satisfied.

What should I wear?

You're not under any pressure, but gents - please make an effort! We promote a 'Dress To Impress' policy, because once you are through the doors, nothing is guaranteed. 
It will be up to you to mix and mingle so you can make the most of your time!

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You may change at the venue, and we also have a shower. Towels are available at £5 each to hire, or you can bring your own.

Do I have to be a certain size?

Absolutely not - anyone of any size is welcome. Traditionally, we usually have straight-sized men coming to meet plus sized women, but don't let that put you off!

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We have no size policy, we just want to promote an inclusive, nonjudgemental atmosphere. 

Why is it more expensive than clubs?

Unlike swinger clubs and spas, we have to hire the venue outright. However, this means we do not  have to make up the cost through food or drink purchases so you can bring your own - making it cheaper in the long run.


We're also close to several very reasonably priced hotels, and unlike anyone else, we have over a decade of running events for plus size people to find confidence and friendship, making them real destination events. 

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What is the cancellation policy?

We promise that we will do everything we can to sell enough tickets to make it a viable event. However, if we have not sold enough 48 hours before the party is due to begin , we will have to cancel as we want you to have a great night meeting people - not a hostage situation. 

We will let you know via email, so please use an address you can be contacted on when purchasing tickets.  You will receive a full refund within 3-5 working days
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If we have to cancel an event, it is unlikely we will return to that area, so don't 'wait until next time'!

Who runs the event?

Pluscious is a Club Indulge event. Club Indulge has been running events for Plus Size Party animals in London for over ten years, and we know how to make a fun, friendly, non-judgemental atmosphere.
 

Club Indulge and Pluscious is run by Miranda Kane, a plus size comedian and ex sex-worker who knows that pleasure has no size limit!

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She also knows that events like this can seem a bit creepy and seedy in the wrong hands, so she created Pluscious to make a fun, welcoming, sexy event for every body

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On hand will be hosts who will guide you through the event and make you all feel at ease. 
 

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What should I bring?

We will have lots of basic supplies -wet wipes, condoms and lubricant, but we recommend bringing your own if you have a particular preference. 

 

We will also have a small selection of snacks and soft drinks but you are also welcome to bring your own as we don't have a huge selection.

Towels will be available to rent for £5, but you can bring your own. You might also like to bring something loose you can walk around the venue in, but we don't mind if you're in your birthday suit. 

Things to think about bringing-

-YOUR OWN ALCOHOL, soft drinks & snacks

-A towel

-condoms/lubricant/wet-wipes

 

YOU MUST BRING A PHOTOGRAPHIC I.D & PROOF OF ADDRESS
 

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