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Consent Guidance
Read so the fun keeps coming!

Consent is the heartbeat of this party. Whether you’re here to flirt, play, watch, or just chat – enthusiastic, informed consent is non-negotiable.

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Consent Applies to Everything – Not Just Play

  • Want to talk to someone? Ask first. A simple “Mind if I join you?” or “Can we chat?” shows respect.

  • If someone says no or isn’t interested, that’s okay. Respect their space and move on.

  • No one owes anyone attention, time, or interaction. Take nothing personally – take it with grace.

Informed Consent = Sober Consent

 

If someone’s too drunk or high to drive, they’re too intoxicated to consent.
Consent given under the influence doesn’t count.
We will not tolerate violations.

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What Consent Is:

  • Freely given – No pressure, no guilt-trips, no bulying.

  • Reversible – People can change their mind at any time.

  • Informed – Everyone must be clear-headed, aware and sober.

  • Enthusiastic – A real, excited yes! – not silence or hesitation.

  • Specific – Consent to one thing doesn’t equal consent to anything else.

See Something? Say Something.

 

​Talk to a host or organiser if anything seems off. Your voice helps keep this space safe and sexy for everyone. Talk to us asap - I'd rather get a hundred reports on the night when I can do something about it than one sad email in the morning!

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What Consent Is Not:

  • Assuming based on outfits, flirting, previous encounters or type of event.

  • Pushing past a "no," "maybe," or uncertain body language.

  • Touching, groping, or following without permission.

  • Engaging with someone visibly intoxicated.
    → If someone can’t clearly give consent, it’s a no.
    → If you hassle someone who’s clearly drunk, you’ll be removed and banned.

Ignorance is not an excuse

We will not tolerate anyone saying they 'didn't know', so here's a handy summary.

  • Ask before anything.

  • Accept “no” without argument.

  • Keep checking in.

  • Respect closed doors, quiet energy, and people’s pace.

  • Use and honour safewords.

  • Don't be a creep. Seriously.

Room Etiquette & Consent

We have 6 rooms available for your pleasure and exploration:

  • 2 Kink Rooms

  • 1 Dark Room

  • 1 Group Room

  • 2 Private Rooms

Closed Door = Closed Scene

If a door is shut in a private or kink room, that means do not enter. No knocking, no peeking, no interrupting. Respect the boundary.

Dark Room Etiquette

Yes, it’s dim – but that’s ambiance, not consent.
You still need clear, verbal or physical affirmation before touching anyone. When in doubt, ask.

 Group Room Courtesy

Want to join the fun? Ask everyone already on the bed before getting involved – or even sitting down.
It’s a shared space, but not a free-for-all.

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